Thursday, May 24, 2012
What followed this realization was a season of God showing me what real love is, so I would know it when it comes. God loves me so much, He doesn't want me to repeat the past. He doesn't want me to live a life of unhealthy love. He wants me to experience real love. I know how to love, but I have never been loved. Love and intimacy should be 100% reciprocated. So God began to teach me about love. He took me on a journey through Song of Solomon and the book of Ruth to show me what real love is. He showed me not how to love, but how to be loved, what receiving real love from another person looks like.
Love is not only about what I do for them, and how I love them. Its about loving me because of who I am! If I didn't do one more thing for them would they still love me and treat me the same?
Love desires to hear my voice and see my face.
Love can't stand to be apart from each other and will take extreme measures to be together.
Love isn't moved by your flaws.
Love is aroused, captured and drawn in, it is not flaunted or teased.
Love gives their heart freely.
Love is a close friendship, and value is placed in that friendship.
Love "sees" you and your value.
Love sees you as beautiful and tells you and others.
Love makes you their world.
Love protects you.
Love provides for you.
Love comforts you.
This is how God loves. God's love is complete, its perfect. God's love is the example for all to follow. And once you experience real love, you will never settle for anything less.